As predicted, the OOM killer did it's job.
The problem is actually that some cracker has managed to upload
httpds.c into /tmp/.bd/ (via apache, still investigating how).
He then managed to compile and run it.
I took a look at the source code, and it seems to be a DDOS util.
Why it killed our server instead of the target of the DDOS I do
not know, but I guess it might be due to our firewall rejecting
all the attempts to connect.
I guess I'll fix this problem the same way I did at another server.
I'll make a partition for /tmp and mount it with noexec, or are
there better ways to do that?