Help with eth1 PLEASE

["Bill Gilmore" <caddmasters home com>]

I have a seond NIC in my intel machine and have tried to get Linux 5.2 to
recognize it.  I have tried a couple of different ways.  I typed in linux
ether=10,0x6800,eth1 at the lilo: prompt.  I have tried to add it with the
daemon thingy in x window.  When I tried that I seemed to get farther along
and could actually activate the card, but only after I chose 3C509 from the
drop down list.  The card is actually a Realtek 8029.  It did not show up on
the list.  Where do I stand?  Do I need to find a driver file somewhere or
what?  If so, once I get it what do I do with it.  As you can tell I am
totally unfamiliar with Linux.
Anyone that can help with any information or guidance please do so.  I am
about to give up.

TIA,
Bill